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Chef's Wife Diary

for women chasing big careers, loving chaotic creators, and raising good humans

A thoughtful working mum sitting at a desk with a laptop open to an email, reflecting on corporate life next to a framed picture of her child.
Reflection

The reality of the corporate climb: ghosting, rejection, and guilt.

July 1, 2026
The email I had been waiting for finally arrived at the exact moment I least expected it. The interview process, which began back in early April, had been an intense...
The Myth of the Quiet Worker: How to Claim Your Worth in a Corporate World
Reflection

The myth of the quiet worker: how to claim your worth in a corporate world.

June 19, 2026
Keep your head down, do the work, and let your results speak for themselves. It’s an unspoken mantra carved into the roots of many traditional Asian upbringings. Growing up as...
why organisation fit matters when raising kids
Reality

Why “organisational fit” matters more when you’re raising kids?

June 11, 2026
The house is finally quiet. Cleared away dishes, the kids are tucked into bed, and my husband is in the middle of his chaotic Thursday night kitchen service. It’s during...
Protect my peace
Reality

When the corporate drama boils over: why I’m stepping back to protect my peace.

June 4, 2026
If you’ve been following along for a while, you know my life is a delicate juggling act. Between my husband’s hectic, late-night schedule, managing a household, raising our little ones,...
Between the boardroom and bedtime: navigating working mom guilt.
Motherhood, Reality

Between the boardroom and bedtime: navigating working mom guilt.

May 26, 2026
Last week, I stood on a quiet train platform, suitcase in one hand, coffee on the other, watching the morning mist clear. I had slipped out of the house while...
Why I stopped people-pleasing in the corporate world?
Reality

Why I stopped people-pleasing in the corporate world?

May 17, 2026
It was 11:30pm on a Tuesday, and the house was finally quiet. My husband, the chef, was just winding down after a long day of menu development. In our kitchen,...
Meaningful hardship: the invisible threads between then and now
Reflection

Meaningful hardship: the invisible threads between then and now.

April 29, 2026
There is such a thing as meaningful hardship: the invisible threads between then and now, it is the kind of difficulty that doesn’t just exhaust you; it refines you, acting...
real respect is earned
Reality

The myth of why real respect can’t be gifted?

April 23, 2026
Between the 6:30 AM school run, the back-to-back strategy sessions, and the mental gymnastics of keeping a household running while scaling a career, I’ve had plenty of time to contemplate...
work life balance
Reality

My life under poor leadership.

January 23, 2026
For many professional women, the mental load isn’t just about remembering school spirit days or managing the household chores. It’s the invisible weight we carry into the office—and lately, that...
2025 reflection
Reflection

How this year has been for me?

December 31, 2025
As we approach the final week of 2025, I want to pause for a moment to reflect: how this year has been for me? and the lessons learned. Where has...

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I’m a full-time corporate professional, a proud mother of two beautiful whirlwind kids, and married to a creative chef. This is the diary of a modern woman navigating the high-stakes corporate ladder, the erratic rhythm of the restaurant industry, and everything it takes to keep a busy home happily running behind the scenes.

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