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Nothing beats a real experience.

Posted on May 23, 2020 by chefswifediary

“The world is a book and those who do not travel read only a page.”

– Saint Augustine

I couldn’t agree more.

Rewinding back to college years when studying was like a chore. Back then, internship was still in the making and not widely encouraged by institutions in Malaysia. In fact, a 50/50 split of assignment and exam-based type of program was highly sought after by many students.

One of the reasons was due to the versatility of courses in combining theories and practicality that could help students in expediting understanding and reasoning of a specific course in a team setting. The other reasons were the unbearable one-way lecturing method conducted at college and repetitive revisions from textbook just for the sake of scoring for exams – Dreadful that students have chosen to avoid at all cost.

It was possible to undertake flexible study programs only with sufficient financial support and above average grades mainly because programs were imported or partnered with foreign education institutions.  Eventually, one would still be required to complete a year of study abroad, at least.

Honestly, I learned a lot academically from lectures and textbooks regardless if they were conducted locally or abroad. It was all up to individual’s self-discipline. Awe-inspiringly, the wholesome opportunity and experiences of travelling and living abroad, meeting new people from the other side of world, exploring different thinking, adapting, and working with people from different cultural backgrounds that were the big eye-opener. The great scores in exams were just means to an end, an end that landed me on a foreign land.

Nothing beats a real experience.

“Adapting into different cultures and new ways of doing things” is an easy-to read statement extracted from a management textbook. Easy-to memorise and regurgitate in exam. Yet, it takes one to live and breath in it to truly understand what it means.

Because of that, I’ve learned skills that have prepared me well in advanced for workforce. I am glad that I fought for that one chance abroad and made the very best out of it. You should too, if given a choice. 

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6 thoughts on “Nothing beats a real experience.”

  1. T. B. C... says:
    June 22, 2020 at 11:10 am

    We have a diverse world out there and it all for us. Why people want to stay stuck in their thoughts, without experiencing something different is beyond me. I think this could also possibly add to the racism that we are seeing in around world so much. When we do not travel outside of our comfort zones, because there is no real reason to, we become insulated and in a way feel superior because of that! I say – if you can – time and finances permitting – travel far and wide and learn that there is more out their then our small, closed minded way of thinking! Thanks for sharing x

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    1. Frames of Life Blog says:
      June 22, 2020 at 6:46 pm

      I hope you enjoyed reading it. 🙂 Thank you .

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  2. Aartham says:
    May 27, 2020 at 10:22 am

    Thats definitely true. A real experience is what we all try to seek. But when “real” becomes a question ,where does one find real experience?

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  3. Sohanpreet Kaur says:
    May 24, 2020 at 12:22 am

    Right, it’s not easy but is a good experience.

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  4. Sheryl Gim says:
    May 23, 2020 at 10:16 am

    Hi! Thanks a lot for following Thoughts of SheryL!
    You have a great blog! 🙂

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    1. Frames of Life Blog says:
      May 23, 2020 at 10:36 am

      You too, I like your blog content and overall scheme. Thanks for your support!

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