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Author: chefswifediary

Corporate servant at day, blogger at night, mommy every day, chef's wife for life. A self-taught artist, I reflect and write about my life experiences and explore art inspired by nature.
metamorphosis

Change is scary but inevitable.

Posted on November 1, 2023April 21, 2025 by chefswifediary

When I moved to London four years ago, I took a step back in my career including a pay cut and a smaller role within my existing organisation just to get by. The idea was to dedicate my effort in settling into a new country, familiarising with new environment and culture, and learning new way…

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blessed

I am truly blessed!

Posted on July 10, 2023April 21, 2025 by chefswifediary

6.35am, she is not awake yet. Surprised by my little pumpkin’s recent early-rise punctuality has changed. I didn’t have a smooth sleep last night, few were disrupted by her nightmares. Funny enough, I wouldn’t be bothered as much prior to motherhood. Life has changed ever since. Her sleep dictates my sleep quality. Anyone would be…

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blogging

Blogging is hard.

Posted on June 1, 2023June 1, 2023 by chefswifediary

Four weeks passed and I couldn’t land a post on my blog until today. The fact that I am seeing so many posts from other writers hitting my mailbox weekly drives my frustration further. Why can’t I just do it? Blogging is hard – since when? My little pumpkin entered ‘Terrible TWO’ a month ago….

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life is a trade-off

Life is a trade-off.

Posted on March 30, 2023April 21, 2025 by chefswifediary

Since moving to London, starting my life all over is like hiking the Himalayan mountains. Well, I have not physically climb the Himalayan mountains but I’m pretty sure they ain’t easy. I spent a decade in building a career in Asia with hope to achieve extraordinary outcome. I made it from a small town to…

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the power of my voice

The power of my voice.

Posted on March 8, 2023May 31, 2024 by chefswifediary

Since becoming a mother, I thought a lot about what kind of world I’d like my daughter to live in. My mother sacrificed her greater ambition for the family. I grew up with the common perception that women belong to the kitchen and are not worth investing in. Mediocre like me did not receive myriad…

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everything and everywhere

Everything and everywhere.

Posted on March 7, 2023July 11, 2024 by chefswifediary

I am everything and everywhere. Recently, I’ve been reflecting on my past, reviewing my present, and projecting my future. Cumulatively, it seems like I have a lot to do, but have yet to achieve any. I find myself a dreamer more than a realist, which totally contradicts with my pragmatic profile. Occasionally, I visualise myself…

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an award winning story

An award-winning story.

Posted on February 28, 2023November 22, 2025 by chefswifediary

When was the last time you did something that scared you? I did it last week. The Chartered Management Institute announced that the application for Chartered Manager of the Year is now open. My first thought was to apply. Then, I had this little negotiator in my head that said, “Do you have what it…

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apprenticeship

Apprenticeship or Degree?

Posted on February 13, 2023November 22, 2025 by chefswifediary

Last week, I attended the CMI Apprenticeships event organised by the Chartered Management Institute. It is an eye-opener event learning from stories of inspiring key note speakers namely HRH The Countess of Wessex, MP Gillian Keegan, and Dame Sharon White. There was a panel of successful apprentices who came a long way and shared their…

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classroom learning

I am overqualified.

Posted on February 9, 2023February 8, 2023 by chefswifediary

For second year in a row, I applied for a placement in ILM leadership and management training courses via my organisation but failed. First year was due to visa and funding limitation and now because I am overqualified. Overqualified? Why was I not told in the first year itself? Some would say, who cares? –…

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writer

All is well.

Posted on February 2, 2023December 31, 2025 by chefswifediary

Here we are at the beginning of February. How is it like for you so far? I started the year with ‘all is well‘ motto. After all, this is what we strive to achieve everyday. With Chinese New Year celebration in January, kick-starting the year with a positive note means even more. Missing this celebration…

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chef's wife diary
Welcome to Chef's Wife Diary!
I’m a full-time corporate professional, a proud mother of two beautiful whirlwind kids, and married to a creative chef. This is the diary of a modern woman navigating the high-stakes corporate ladder, the erratic rhythm of the restaurant industry, and everything it takes to keep a busy home happily running behind the scenes.
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  1. chefswifediary on Life simple pleasure.July 18, 2024

    Ahh how come there is trouble liking my post? Glad you drop by with your feedback. Different feelings we get…

  2. Mary K. Doyle on Life simple pleasure.July 17, 2024

    I'm having difficulty liking your posts. I just went to my mom's grave as well. My husband's, also. All the…

  3. chefswifediary on Catching up with my toddler.February 5, 2024

    Indeed! Thank you for reading and your kind comment!

  4. Sam on Catching up with my toddler.February 5, 2024

    Time definitely flies when it comes to babies growing up. Hope you're enjoying your maternity leave with your little one…

  5. Frames of Life Blog on Desperate for ApprovalMarch 14, 2023

    Thanks for reading Belinda! Much appreciated!!

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